What If I told you - You Could Have Your Fruit And Eat It Too?

What if you were always meant to have your fruit—ripe, messy, dripping with sweetness—and eat it with your whole spirit, your whole wilde heart?

What if that sweetness, like joy wasn't a reward for good behavior, but your birthright?

This is your invitation to take the first bite.

What She’s Saying

Discover Your Spirit Fruit

Like a spirit animal…but sweeter. And less hairy

(unless you’re a kiwi or rambutan, then you are both sweet and a little hairy)

Take the quiz to discover yours.

What's Your Spirit Fruit ? →

Author and cheerfully disobedient playologist reclaiming joy and pleasure — part medicine, part rebellion.

So, you just met your Spirit Fruit. Now what? Let me share something first…

Your fruit is your joy, your time, your pleasure, your peace, your safety, your choices. You don't have to choose between having these things and actually enjoying them. You're sovereign. You get to savor them, spend them on what lights you up.

I spent years being the good girl — responsible, people-pleasing, and totally exhausted. Then Lyme disease forced me to stop and pay attention to myself. That's when I discovered a medicine no doctor ever prescribed: play, pleasure, and the joy of messing around.

Now I guide women back to what makes them fully alive. Because you're not a machine to be optimized. You're slightly wilde, a little feral, and meant to thrive — not just slog along hoping one day it gets better.

This is for the ones trading orgasms for to-do lists. The ones who forgot they have a right to their own joy.

You've spent your whole life tending to other people's gardens. I'm here to show you how to tend to yours, and finally taste the fruit.

Want to know how? Let me show you — I promise it'll be more fun than your last self-help binge. ⤵

Hi. Vanessa here …

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Nourish Your Inner Garden in 3 minutes. A mini pep talk to help you feel joy, pleasure & lighter than ever.

There’s a MORE Fruitful way to live fully—without guilt, burnout, or secretly waiting for permission.

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